Although the readings from the Revised Common Lectionary each week do not necessarily have a common theme, I often like to explore them looking for some commonality - both in preparing for a sermon, or as a spiritual discipline. This week I looked at Joseph's family reunion story in Genesis, and the Canaanite woman story from Matthew. My first reaction was outrage...
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| Bacchiacca |
Joseph could no longer control himself in front of all his attendants, so he declared, “Everyone, leave now!” So no one stayed with him when he revealed his identity to his brothers. He wept so loudly that the Egyptians and Pharaoh’s household heard him. Joseph said to his brothers, “I’m Joseph! Is my father really still alive?” His brothers couldn’t respond because they were terrified before him.
Joseph said to his brothers, “Come closer to me,” and they moved closer. He said, “I’m your brother Joseph! The one you sold to Egypt. Now, don’t be upset and don’t be angry with yourselves that you sold me here. Actually, God sent me before you to save lives. We’ve already had two years of famine in the land, and there are five years left without planting or harvesting. God sent me before you to make sure you’d survive and to rescue your lives in this amazing way. You didn’t send me here; it was God who made me a father to Pharaoh, master of his entire household, and ruler of the whole land of Egypt.
“Hurry! Go back to your father. Tell him this is what your son Joseph says: ‘God has made me master of all of Egypt. Come down to me. Don’t delay. You may live in the land of Goshen, so you will be near me, your children, your grandchildren, your flocks, your herds, and everyone with you. I will support you there, so you, your household, and everyone with you won’t starve, since the famine will still last five years.’ You and my brother Benjamin have seen with your own eyes that I’m speaking to you. Tell my father about my power in Egypt and about everything you’ve seen. Hurry and bring my father down here.” He threw his arms around his brother Benjamin’s neck and wept, and Benjamin wept on his shoulder. He kissed all of his brothers and wept, embracing them. After that, his brothers were finally able to talk to him.
(Genesis 45:1-15; Common English Bible)
No matter how much we try to sugar coat it in church or in studies, Joseph was the victim of child abuse. Everyone's first reaction to should be outrage! And then when he is reunited, Joseph continues the cycle of abuse framing and holding hostage poor little Benji - his youngest brother and the only innocent one left in the family.
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| Très Riches Heures Duc de Berry |
Leaving that place, Jesus withdrew to the region of Tyre and Sidon. A Canaanite woman from that vicinity came to him, crying out, “Lord, Son of David, have mercy on me! My daughter is demon-possessed and suffering terribly.”
Jesus did not answer a word. So his disciples came to him and urged him, “Send her away, for she keeps crying out after us.”
He answered, “I was sent only to the lost sheep of Israel.”
The woman came and knelt before him. “Lord, help me!” she said.
He replied, “It is not right to take the children’s bread and toss it to the dogs.”
“Yes it is, Lord,” she said. “Even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their master’s table.”
Then Jesus said to her, “Woman, you have great faith! Your request is granted.” And her daughter was healed at that moment.
(Matthew 15:21-28; NIV)
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| Andrew Wyeth |
First, Jesus the Healer ignores a woman seeking help from him for her daughter. Then he says that he's only there to help the lost of Israel - he won't even talk to her or send her home. Finally, he calls her sick daughter a dog! This Jesus outrages me. This isn't the Jesus I've convinced myself that I know.
We so desperately yearn for stories of redemption and easy grace. We want a movie ending where Joseph rises above his life as an abuse victim, where he show them up by behaving in a saintly way that shocks the victimizers into penitents, and they live happily ever after. We want a healer to heal any and all who are in need. We want heroes who are better than ourselves. Yet both Joseph and Jesus appear to act in an evil selfish manner - or at least not "heroically".
The brothers could have easily gone back to their father and told him that Benjamin had been killed by a wild beast - it had worked before. But they persevered, they returned for their baby brother. The un-named woman also persevered. Her need and expectation were so great that she not only addressed a strange man in public but she also argued with him: "You may think my daughter is a dog, but even dogs may eat the crumbs that fall on the floor." I love this woman's chutzpah!
Joseph is moved by his brothers' sacrificial love for Benjamin. Jesus is moved by a protective mother's love and faith. The brothers and the mother confront outrageousness face-on by persevering. Like the parable of the Persistent Widow, it's not about the asking - it seems to me to be about the trust, patience and faith involved in stubbornly ignoring "reality" in search of something greater.
"For God has imprisoned all in disobedience so that He may be merciful to all. (Romans 11:32; NRSV)